You see me, you say

You see the king they threw away

But let me tell you WHY

I'm different from most guys

When she left, kids were young

Had to be TWO, not just one

Dad at breakfast, mom at night

Teach them strength, hold them tight

Couldn't just be "tough dad" role

Had to nurture heart and soul

Braid their hair, wipe their tears

Face their fears, calm their years

Soccer games and ballet shows

Science fair and emotional lows

Had to learn what moms all know

How to let emotions FLOW

Not weakness like men claim

Emotional depth ain't shame

Had to be BOTH for them

Father strong AND mother's gem

I learned to cry AND stand tall

Be vulnerable AND be their wall

Masculine AND feminine too

That's what single parenting do

Don't choose sides, I chose BOTH

That's my strength, that's my growth

Complete human, nothing lost

Paid the price, worth the cost

I sit on BOTH sides of the throne (complete)

Learned mother wisdom, father strong (integrated)

Don't choose sides, God don't either (divine)

Full spectrum human, true believer (whole)

I sit on BOTH sides of the throne (duality)

Embraced emotions, stayed my own (masculine feminine)

Not confused, I'm INTEGRATED (complete)

Both energies celebrated (honored)

Society said "man up, don't cry"

I said "fuck that" and asked why

Why can't strength hold tenderness?

Why can't power show distress?

Watched my daughter's first heartbreak

Had to be BOTH for her sake

Strong dad saying "you'll survive"

Mom's embrace keeping her alive

Taught my son it's okay to feel

Masculine don't mean conceal

Real men cry, real men care

Real strength is being there

Not toxic masculinity

But complete humanity

God made BOTH in his image shown

That's why I claim BOTH throne

I learned to cry AND stand tall

Be soft AND be their wall

Mother's wisdom, father's might

Darkness AND the light

Don't choose sides, that's incomplete

God's duality can't be beat

Neither masculine nor feminine alone

But BOTH integrated throne

I sit on BOTH sides of the throne (WHOLE)

Learned mother wisdom, father strong (COMPLETE)

Don't choose sides, God don't either (DIVINE)

Full spectrum human, true believer (REAL)

I sit on BOTH sides of the throne (INTEGRATED)

Embraced emotions, stayed my own (BALANCED)

Not confused, I'm INTEGRATED (WHOLE)

Both energies celebrated (SACRED)

(Let me teach you something)

God don't choose masculine or feminine

GOD IS BOTH, that's discipline

Creator AND nurturer same source

Warrior AND healer, of course

Why you think humans have both inside?

We're made in image, nothing to hide

Masculine feminine divine design

Not separate energies, intertwine

Society split what God made whole

Told men "don't feel," damaged the soul

Told women "don't rage," clipped their wings

But complete humans need BOTH things

I had no choice, kids needed me

To be BOTH completely

And through that pain, I found the key

Duality sets you FREE

Not man OR woman energy

But human FULL capacity

Strength AND tenderness coexist

Warrior AND nurturer twist

Power AND vulnerability dance

Fierce AND gentle given chance

Logic AND emotion both

That's the WHOLE human oath

So when you say you see my scars

And gentle strength that travels far

It's 'cause I learned BOTH languages

Masculine AND feminine passages

I can be your fierce protector

AND your emotional connector

Hold you strong in these arms

AND understand your inner harms

I won't fear your queen's mean side

'Cause mother energy I don't hide

I embrace your docile too

'Cause both in me, both in you

That's why we FIT, can't you see?

You want complex, I'M complete

Both energies integrated real

That's the king you want to feel

I sit on BOTH sides of the throne (THAT'S ME)

Learned mother wisdom, father strong (COMPLETE HUMAN)

Don't choose sides, God don't either (DIVINE DESIGN)

Full spectrum human, true believer (INTEGRATED)

END!